Split Wedding Guests.......

[Spider Pig]

Ok i've only been to one Muslim wedding before, and this another mate who got married and his party thing was today, anyway, first time ever (never seen this at a Sikh wedding), the guys and girls were split with a cover in between so you couldn't see over to the other side! wtf?! everyone was complaining amongst themselves lol cos you weren't even allowed to go near the other side, and amongst the lads were just having a laugh but kind of dissapointed that you weren't allowed to see the girls (man I was pimped out lol, it woudn't be possible for me to get hitched but you know everyone has a look around lol).

Anyway, have you guys (whatever religion) been to a wedding like this? I hear its not common but it does happen at muslim weddings?


You could see the guys were eager to get a peep somehow but weren't allowed lol and the girls would be walking to the toilets and looking around too, it just makes them more eager.


What are your views on it? I know none of my other muslim mates are going to do split weddings so this was a suprise.

[Zero]

Yeh thats how it should be in my opinion.

I've been to plenty myself.

Dont see it as a problem.

[LuBz]

Yeah some do it, some don't.

[True Story]

stuff like that is over the top IMO, i dont see the need

[sheff gal]

Well i dont see the point cozz
the guys "wannabes" ahem.. come into the girls part enyway..
pretending to look 4 sum1. like there Mum..

But at the end all them men come upp anyway.
but then again thats liek close uncles..

[M4RN1]

A man is greedy for the things he is restricted from

[Memphis]

I've been to plenty of segregated weddings and a few more comming up in the summer

I don't see any thing wrong with it

[True Story]

Not saying there's anything wrong with it, but sum1 please explain what exactly is the purpose? to stop guys & girls hitting on each other? or what?

[Zero]

Originally Posted by True Story Not saying there's anything wrong with it, but sum1 please explain what exactly is the purpose? to stop guys & girls hitting on each other? or what?

In Islam there are those people who dont know, those who do know and those who know and yet reject it.

The purpose is to keep them seperate which is what happens at proper segregated weddings.

Think Hijaab, but on a bigger scale lol.

[Spider Pig]

well my views are going to be different im not part of your relgion but I can understand it in a way if it is a relgious thing, but a lot of ppl were not happy about it lol, especially in the 21st century as it makes ppl more eager to see whats on the other side.

[True Story]

i've been to two or three muslim weddings and its never been segregated or anything, this is actually the first i've ever heard of this

[Zero]

Originally Posted by baz_da_man_uk well my views are going to be different im not part of your relgion but I can understand it in a way if it is a relgious thing, but a lot of ppl were not happy about it lol, especially in the 21st century as it makes ppl more eager to see whats on the other side.

Yeh lol. It is a religious thing.

21st Century hmm...Time changes...religion stays the same...

[Zero]

Originally Posted by True Story i've been to two or three muslim weddings and its never been segregated or anything, this is actually the first i've ever heard of this

Then its not a proper muslim wedding then is it? Its a modern asian wedding.

[True Story]

Originally Posted by Zero Then its not a proper muslim wedding then is it? Its a modern asian wedding.

i guess thats what it is then, i'd rather it be that tbh

[Spider Pig]

Originally Posted by Zero Yeh lol. It is a religious thing. 21st Century hmm...Time changes...religion stays the same...

tru say tru say, but everyone just seems to think its a backwards thing? and most ppl say they've only ever been to 1 or 2 split ones in their lifes lol so I thought it was just because some ppl are a bit too paranoid.