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The Asian News
02-07-2009 13:00
Reports of forced marriages on the increase

More men and women are coming forward to seek protection from forced marriage.
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D351-GUND4M · 02-07-2009, 10:31

agreed.....

Maya · 02-07-2009, 14:09

11% only in the Bengali community. I don't believe that for one second. The figures are much higher then that!

$xy $onz · 03-07-2009, 18:52

i dnt see y dey make a big issue about it all these kids need to do is talk 2 der parents and xplain 2 em n dey shud understand no parent wud wna ruin der childrens life

mani · 03-07-2009, 19:40

^genious.

u should email that theory to the home office and i'm sure if they try really hard michael jackson will come back too.

such an easy thing why hasnt anyone else thought of it?

zoned · 03-07-2009, 19:42

Originally Posted by $xy $onz

i dnt see y dey make a big issue about it all these kids need to do is talk 2 der parents and xplain 2 em n dey shud understand no parent wud wna ruin der childrens life

what fantasy world do u live in? if it was that easy i think most the people who have been victim of force marriage wouldn't have gone with it, i believe most the time they are threatened with violence, blackmail and death

mani · 03-07-2009, 19:51

^exactly - it wouldnt be an issue as big as it is - if all it took was a nice chit chat

Rab C Nesbit · 03-07-2009, 20:17

The 11% will slowly start to creep up... It's only just become illegal.
It'll take a while for people to think, "Hey, I can report this shit, and get something done now!"

mani · 03-07-2009, 20:19

but it will also cause people to abuse the system too

Rab C Nesbit · 03-07-2009, 20:25

...Explain?

mindstate · 03-07-2009, 21:55

sucks for them

BlackmaideN · 03-07-2009, 22:16

Originally Posted by $xy $onz

i dnt see y dey make a big issue about it all these kids need to do is talk 2 der parents and xplain 2 em n dey shud understand no parent wud wna ruin der childrens life

LOL I actually expected that to come from u

$ing$tar · 04-07-2009, 00:26

i dont agree with forced marriages i think its disgusting but sometimes some ppl put themselves in that situation,
no one can force you on a damn plane for godsake!!
and no one can force you to get married theres many ways to get out of it!!!

i agree alot of people do it to keep their parents happy but why not take time out and show your parents your much happier making your own choice n if it messes up it will be your own fault!

i seen alot of ppl go through this n most of them land themselves right into it e.g are proper messed up drinking smoking shiit doing stupid things causing parents stress and these parents just see getting their kids married the only option. sad very sad n i thank allah i dont have to go through this shit n i wish i could help some ppl that go through theses types of things.

$xy $onz · 04-07-2009, 19:41

i ent living in no fantasy world it has workd for many ppl i knw n ur parents dnt hate u dat der not even gna listen 2 wat u gota say yh dey emotional blakmail alot but if u do explain 2 em dey do listen

i knw ppl who wer in such a situation n now r not as dey sat n spoke to der rents n xplaind n now its fine

manj u so pathetic wat does MJ gota do wiv dis

blackmaiden i only say wat i believ n hav seen 4m experience so if u xpectd it den u knw me to well lol

i agree wiv singstar many ppl do it jus to keep der rents happy n dats it n no1 can really force u dey not gna hold ur hand n make u sign da papers u can jus leav if ur famly is totally insane n dnt cr bwt u

kuzko · 04-07-2009, 19:48

i know a friend from college had an force marriage

02-07-2009, 09:13	#1 (permalink)
AP News Feed Loyal Member Posts: 3,869 Rep Power: 0 Rep Level:	Reports of forced marriages on the increase The Asian News 02-07-2009 13:00 Reports of forced marriages on the increase More men and women are coming forward to seek protection from forced marriage. *What are your views about this? Read More...* Discuss!

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D351-GUND4M Loyal Member Location: ガンダム Throne London ''HYPE DA FUNK'' Age: 25 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 3,732 My Mood: I have 4 Blog Entries Rep Power: 159 Rep Level:	agreed..... Some People are Sweet an Yet so Bitter...So Best Thing To Do is Sour Them...That Way There Rotten

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Maya Advanced Member Location: London Gender: Female Country: Posts: 811 My Mood: Rep Power: 103 Rep Level:	11% only in the Bengali community. I don't believe that for one second. The figures are much higher then that! There's no jealousy in the grave...

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mani Forum Addict! Location: Why so serious? Gender: Male Country: Posts: 1,858 My Mood: I have 1 Blog Entries Rep Power: 71 Rep Level:	^genious. u should email that theory to the home office and i'm sure if they try really hard michael jackson will come back too. such an easy thing why hasnt anyone else thought of it? "Hedgehogs. Why can't they just share the hedge?"

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mani Forum Addict! Location: Why so serious? Gender: Male Country: Posts: 1,858 My Mood: I have 1 Blog Entries Rep Power: 71 Rep Level:	^exactly - it wouldnt be an issue as big as it is - if all it took was a nice chit chat "Hedgehogs. Why can't they just share the hedge?"

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$xy $onz Respected Member Location: A.Y Age: 23 Gender: Female Country: Posts: 7,263 Rep Power: 240 Rep Level:	i dnt see y dey make a big issue about it all these kids need to do is talk 2 der parents and xplain 2 em n dey shud understand no parent wud wna ruin der childrens life

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Rab C Nesbit Forum Addict! Location: Dystopia Age: 30 Gender: Female Country: Posts: 1,986 My Mood: Rep Power: 193 Rep Level:	The 11% will slowly start to creep up... It's only just become illegal. It'll take a while for people to think, "Hey, I can report this shit, and get something done now!" I am Confidence and Insecurity. Evil Genious is My Budden Man.

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mani Forum Addict! Location: Why so serious? Gender: Male Country: Posts: 1,858 My Mood: I have 1 Blog Entries Rep Power: 71 Rep Level:	but it will also cause people to abuse the system too "Hedgehogs. Why can't they just share the hedge?"

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Rab C Nesbit Forum Addict! Location: Dystopia Age: 30 Gender: Female Country: Posts: 1,986 My Mood: Rep Power: 193 Rep Level:	...Explain? I am Confidence and Insecurity. Evil Genious is My Budden Man.

03-07-2009, 21:55	#11 (permalink)
mindstate Loyal Member Location: uk Gender: Male Country: Posts: 3,871 Rep Power: 325 Rep Level:	sucks for them

04-07-2009, 00:26	#13 (permalink)
$ing$tar Advanced Member Location: U dont need to know! Gender: Female Country: Posts: 830 My Mood: Rep Power: 48 Rep Level:	i dont agree with forced marriages i think its disgusting but sometimes some ppl put themselves in that situation, no one can force you on a damn plane for godsake!! and no one can force you to get married theres many ways to get out of it!!! i agree alot of people do it to keep their parents happy but why not take time out and show your parents your much happier making your own choice n if it messes up it will be your own fault! i seen alot of ppl go through this n most of them land themselves right into it e.g are proper messed up drinking smoking shiit doing stupid things causing parents stress and these parents just see getting their kids married the only option. sad very sad n i thank allah i dont have to go through this shit n i wish i could help some ppl that go through theses types of things.

04-07-2009, 19:41	#14 (permalink)
$xy $onz Respected Member Location: A.Y Age: 23 Gender: Female Country: Posts: 7,263 Rep Power: 240 Rep Level:	i ent living in no fantasy world it has workd for many ppl i knw n ur parents dnt hate u dat der not even gna listen 2 wat u gota say yh dey emotional blakmail alot but if u do explain 2 em dey do listen i knw ppl who wer in such a situation n now r not as dey sat n spoke to der rents n xplaind n now its fine manj u so pathetic wat does MJ gota do wiv dis blackmaiden i only say wat i believ n hav seen 4m experience so if u xpectd it den u knw me to well lol i agree wiv singstar many ppl do it jus to keep der rents happy n dats it n no1 can really force u dey not gna hold ur hand n make u sign da papers u can jus leav if ur famly is totally insane n dnt cr bwt u

04-07-2009, 19:48	#15 (permalink)
kuzko Member Location: Brummy Age: 22 Gender: Female Country: Posts: 374 My Mood: Rep Power: 30 Rep Level:	i know a friend from college had an force marriage KiSs KiSs KiSs KU KU KU KU KU KU KU KU KU KU KU KUZKO

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