Guys would you

[Lucy]

be bothered if ur wife/gf had a higher income than you?

Would u feel less of a man if she had a house,or a beter car?

Can u pls give me reasons why tht WOULD bother you????

[Spider Pig]

yeh I would be bothered because I feel as though I should be the one working harder and getting the income to support the family, also I expect her to stay at home and take care of the kids from birth until teens etc. so I would need a good income.

It would only bother me if my income was low, otherwise it wouldn't bother me if she's gettin a really high income because she might have a very good job with good opportunities etc. etc.

If we had to rely on her income then yes it would bother me and I would take up 3 jobs if I had to lol, but hopefully one will be enough.

[M4RN1]

It would a little and that bother would grow into something IF only if she started acting funny.
When women have the money in hand and bit of power they do start to boss around and give orders like General Gadafi. It's a mans duty to treat and look after the wife, if he cant do it because his low in income then yes he would feel he is lacking in his manhood. But there are couples who dont give a two shits about money nor stuck up and meet in middle and make love have kids and grow fat.


Funnily enough me and my mate was 'gossiping' about britney spears when she was dating a local asian from birmingham. Now it must have been like she had a fat wad of cash and he just a little, now when you take her out on a date because shes been bought up in high life what possibly could you buy her? one ring would empty your bank balance but for her it's just a penny from the piggy bank.

[desimack]

I'd sit at home and cash in

[M4RN1]

Originally Posted by desimack I'd sit at home and cash in

Tax her for entering the house aswell...lol

[Iroquois Pliskin]

Not bothered. More dow in da house.

[Guji-Ji]

Same as above.

However i dont think it would that much if it wasnt mentioned but if she made a deal out of it than God help her.

[Lucy]

Originally Posted by baz_da_man_uk yeh I would be bothered because I feel as though I should be the one working harder and getting the income to support the family, also I expect her to stay at home and take care of the kids from birth until teens etc. so I would need a good income. It would only bother me if my income was low, otherwise it wouldn't bother me if she's gettin a really high income because she might have a very good job with good opportunities etc. etc. If we had to rely on her income then yes it would bother me and I would take up 3 jobs if I had to lol, but hopefully one will be enough.

but lets say,she had tht house before u two were together,would u really be tht bothered just coz u have to move into a house tht u havent bought?

that just coz ur names not on the house,u feel less than her?????

Originally Posted by M4RN1 It would a little and that bother would grow into something IF only if she started acting funny. When women have the money in hand and bit of power they do start to boss around and give orders like General Gadafi. It's a mans duty to treat and look after the wife, if he cant do it because his low in income then yes he would feel he is lacking in his manhood. But there are couples who dont give a two shits about money nor stuck up and meet in middle and make love have kids and grow fat. Funnily enough me and my mate was 'gossiping' about britney spears when she was dating a local asian from birmingham. Now it must have been like she had a fat wad of cash and he just a little, now when you take her out on a date because shes been bought up in high life what possibly could you buy her? one ring would empty your bank balance but for her it's just a penny from the piggy bank.

ok,but some women arent the type to say,ohh am much more powerful and better,why is it that a thing,a few bricks make u uys wana question ur so called manhood??

wats so bad tht a woman has somethng u dont,who cares,as long as shes gona cook for u,be there for u,then why does it matter tht she bought a house????

Originally Posted by desimack I'd sit at home and cash in

LOL u fucker,u wud do tht,well make sure u cook my fave food then.

[Spider Pig]

nah that wouldn't bother me, about the house, but I would just say "ok I'll pay towards the decorating" etc. etc.

but if she started acting like "the house is mine" blah blahhh or money got to her head "I earn more" etc. then there would be issues

[m4_Rahim_ZRahman]

My fiancee is already richer than me by birth with parents earning six figures!!! Know problem espeially by the time I marry her.

[Lucy]

Originally Posted by baz_da_man_uk nah that wouldn't bother me, about the house, but I would just say "ok I'll pay towards the decorating" etc. etc. but if she started acting like "the house is mine" blah blahhh or money got to her head "I earn more" etc. then there would be issues

hmmmm

but even so,some guys are soo bothered,they dont care tht ur not gona be big headed.

[Iroquois Pliskin]

Originally Posted by m4_Rahim_ZRahman My fiancee is already richer than me by birth with parents earning six figures!!! Know problem espeially by the time I marry her.

wow thats well cool.

[Cheeky_Princess]

as a joke i always said id love to own more then my hubby but meh im not really botherd...

( soz i no it was aimed at guys this thread but yeh)

anyways it shdnt really bother guy unless she started becoming all possisive of her things and u no boast abt it blah its mine etc... not urs.. under my name

after all in marriage even if your legaly dont own the house 2geta.. you still do mentaly etc... so by tellin the hubby its MY house is just crap.. and if i was a guy i wud hate that and id work my ass of just 2 buy my own house

if the women owend it and didnt boast abt it... shared it etc then shld be no problems

[Lady Shyne]

but like when ur married its all about sharing ryt? lol what ur partner has is also urs. i think the guys would be pissed tho if the wife earned more or she was the owner of the house, cos they suppose to be the bread winners u kno top man inni espec the ego trips lol. say u have an argument n ur wifes lyk "Its my house u leave" *kicks him out the door*

[True Story]

it wouldnt bother me, if she worked hard and got a really good well paying job, i'd be proud of her

it would only be a problem if she starts to get a bad attitude cos of it or sumfin like that...but that goes without sayin