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[M4RN1]

Would you marry back home?

reasons why?

what are the pros and cons about marrying back home?

Why UK? pros and cons?


Personally I wouldnt mind marrying a girl back home now people would say ahh she cant speak the language which is total bollocks, now days back home they can speak english and have good education and also having in mund they are wifey material and will look after you and bear patience with you instead of throwing a missy fit and run to her moms.

Only prob is the mentality and adapting to the british culture but is it really hard to mould a girl and teach her?

They speak the english language, wifey material and will keep good ties with your family, educated.

what bout youus lots?

[Guji-Ji]

i wouldnt mind as such but experience in my family tells me not too...

some of the girls there though.... wow...

[.Prizzle.]

i wouldnt marry someone from back home bcause the whole mentality and the way of thinking and living is different...
however i would have my wedding back home, those of you who have been to a wedding back home know what i mean, the way they do everything is amazing.....
i'm traditional like that !

[Enchantress]

Hell. No.

[DJ B4VVY]

i wouldnt marry someone from back home bcause the whole mentality and the way of thinking and living is different...
however i would have my wedding back home, those of you who have been to a wedding back home know what i mean, the way they do everything is amazing.....
i'm traditional like that !

I agree but not about getting married there well I wouldn't mind getting married in India but somewhere better than the pind itself!

My cousins who live in the cities go back o the pind to get married which I think is daft coz they're going backwards, the electricity ain't good there, no facilities like water etc

I'd probably wanna have a wedding in one of the big cities or maybe even Goa!!! I love Goa

[Lady Shyne]

hmm gehin married from bak home..erm NO. from family experiances and personally i cudnt have a freshie hubby..it jus wudnt work lol. how would u know that their not jus afta stay here?..i think il stik with the UK =). Buh the weddins r sik.

[mindstate]

sure why not...india is not a village...my cousins mates are like ultra modern in terms of thinkin..only difference is the accents we have..

so yea no problem...

trust me ur not even gonna care about who the person is when u get married...ur gonna be mature enough to understand that your love for that person is what matters the most

let me stop b4 i start to get all mushy...

[Cheeky_Princess]

Would you marry back home?

reasons why?

what are the pros and cons about marrying back home?

Why UK? pros and cons?

No i would not marry back home... the whole menatlity and everythings diffren.. but then again it depends.. i mean sum pakistani guys frm back hom really ave a western mentalty and are on the same level as u..... like one of my cuzinz was completly on the same level as me it was shocking.. i mean the girl really likes the idea of the western life etc....and one of my guy cuzinz is applying for a uni here... or canada

so it really depends in the area.. and how the person are 2 be honest...

but personaly no.. cuz if i was to bring a guy back from back home... he wont ave a job to support me... and its pretty hard unless he has a decent qualfication dat can get him a decent job also id be taking him away from his family... so in a backwards pakistani mentaly way dats wrong... cuz id be like the women is in charge.. .and thou der shld be equality but u no how it is...


now why in the uk? 2 be honest i dnt mind a guy who was like 10 and den moved 2 the uk cuz his been breed here so understand it much better.. the way things work.. i guess modern socity... and they'll be more understanding i guess... so yeh inshallah i plan to marry a guy from here in the uk... if im still living that is lol

when i was in pak my cuzinz n auntys use 2 tease me n say der got my rista sorted wiv sum1... use 2 piss me off.. and id always say to them that never am i gnna marry back home and i guess i wont.. UNLESS worse comes to worse and for sum werid reason im livin in pakistan for good so err yeh :S


blah i talk 2 much

[.Prizzle.]

sure why not...india is not a village...my cousins mates are like ultra modern in terms of thinkin..only difference is the accents we have..

so yea no problem...

trust me ur not even gonna care about who the person is when u get married...ur gonna be mature enough to understand that your love for that person is what matters the most

let me stop b4 i start to get all mushy...

hawwww who wuda thought

[diva2620]

No i wouldnt marry a man from Bangladesh its hard finding a bengali guy in England to understand my lifestyle and accept me and how i live etc so guys from bangladesh would be even more fucked up!!

[DJ B4VVY]

sure why not...india is not a village...my cousins mates are like ultra modern in terms of thinkin..only difference is the accents we have..

so yea no problem...

trust me ur not even gonna care about who the person is when u get married...ur gonna be mature enough to understand that your love for that person is what matters the most

let me stop b4 i start to get all mushy...

But how are you gonna get to know and love them when they are so far away?

[Axii]

i dont mind as long as he can look after me and my kids...and dat im happy....i mean yeah sure theres a culture clash but you can compromise..i wud prefer this country tho..

[Spider Pig]

Would you marry back home?

to be honest I wouldn't mind as long as we both liked each other, and she was literate and stuff. Altho I would be more picky if it was a girl from back home.

reasons why?

well if it was the typical old skooler, you can guarantee she will love you and care for you, she won't get fed up if she has to cook or clean [not like thats all i want a wife for lol] and its more likely you can trust her, if she's been brought up properly.

what are the pros and cons about marrying back home?

ermmm pro's the costs are still as high as over here but you get so much more! like a proper amazing wedding.


cons, well all my mates and quite a lot of my fam live in england and I think a lot of them wouldn't be able to make it.

Why UK? pros and cons?

pros, all mates and fam that you know are over here, you can have a good wedding too, dj's/music etc.

cons, I was born in India so ppl still remember me even if I dont remember them, plus a lot of fam that my parents care about prolly couldnt come over, altho they will prolly invite a lot of them n pay for most as well, so the costs for that will be quite high.

wifey pros, well she will know about the british culture, will be more likely on the same level and you could talk to her and stuff about anything really.

wifey cons, never know with the girls [and guys] these days, do they have a history with ppl, are you their first choice if a choice at all.... might get bitchy, might not be as respectful etc. etc.

[Guji-Ji]

But how are you gonna get to know and love them when they are so far away?

Obviously they move here.

[navi]

nope

their way of thinkin is totally different 2 my way of thinkin
dont want 2b used 4 a green card
gonna sound a lil racist but i can not stand the accent