Ok before u lot have a pop,read carefully.
So me and my sister were talkng,and shes telln me how all the white ppl at work are ok with her,but can sort of turn their noses up at other asians.
Now this has happened to me too,where some white ppl have sed to me that they think of me as white.
The reason they think of me as white is because of the way i dress,coz i have gay mates,coz i go out with these ppl,so am classed as 'normal'..not how they normally think the way an asian woman shud be, ie: sat at home,not allowed out,and not allowed to have a job wear western clothes etc!!!!!
Also i have noticed tht sometimes wen am wearng asian clothes,some goray seem to be rude to me.
Now me and my sis think tht its not about colour but culture,as long as u ''fit in'' with white ppl,and their culture they seem to forget that u are a brown person.
So many times my white mates have sed to me they just see me as a ''tanned white gal'',that am normal.
So is it really about colour? Do these goray only call us brown wen we dress in our own clothes and act too desi??
Coz altho i were fasting,and only love desi food,they even seem to overlook tht too,just coz am wat they call someone 'normal'
i think tht if u understand their culture and go out with them now and again they seem to accept u,even accept the fact that you fast etc,coz u can also fit around them!!
so wat u lot say?
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