What do you guys think of arranged mariages?

[m4_Rahim_ZRahman]

well people, guess wot? u no da cousin i was talkin about. shes run away...kindof. i mean at first, people were dead worried but den i gt a txt frm her sayin shell b bck in a week, shes only scarin her parents and savin herself frm dat arranged marriage. i was like ur one cheeky b*tch!! newayz her 'plan' seems to be wrking perfecto coz her parents are regretting every second they even thought about that arranged marriage....................

I hope she gets what she wants, that marriage is haram and the parents don't even bother considering that.

[frost]

ahhh this is a great subject as i too have a great depth of knowledge and will share with u all mere mortals..... arrange marriage has 2 sides....one where u marry someone just cause he/she is a relative to you and the other is whom ur parents think is a person for u.

another think u have to think about is the different up bringin esp if the person is from bangladesh. u love rock music she likes baul.... it get tricky.

and one more thing most peeps in bangladesh sees marriage to a ''londoner'' as a visa compromise esp the relative.

i have seen too much of these marriages... some good some bad and some really ugly... its a matter of luck. so ask yourself ...... do you feel lucky

[Guji-Ji]

ahhh this is a great subject as i too have a great depth of knowledge and will share with u all mere mortals..... arrange marriage has 2 sides....one where u marry someone just cause he/she is a relative to you and the other is whom ur parents think is a person for u.

another think u have to think about is the different up bringin esp if the person is from bangladesh. u love rock music she likes baul.... it get tricky.

and one more thing most peeps in bangladesh sees marriage to a ''londoner'' as a visa compromise esp the relative.

i have seen too much of these marriages... some good some bad and some really ugly... its a matter of luck. so ask yourself ...... do you feel lucky

[Silia--x]

well,its in da title, what do YOU think of arranged marriages? just askin coz one of my cousins was 'asked' to marry some guy she never met before. well she wasnt asked, she was TOLD to and dat ended up wid a big family arguement n dat wasnt nice....

i say it works out for some

[CheeseCake]

Marriage is sacred whether it be 'love' or 'arranged', both require commitment, the key factors to a successful, blessed marriage, are not varied amongst the two.

I’d say exactly what I stated in the generic forums of this site. I don't have issues having an arranged marriage, nowadays it seems individuals, that I come across within other communities, and quite surprisingly, some amongst the South Asians, are somewhat confound by the thought of "Arranged marriages", considering it to be "forced".

Bengaliroots - In regards to what you stated in your original post. From all that it seems, it doesn't seem like an "arranged marriage", which like I said is usually misinterpreted, it's force rather, so at the very least I shall hope improve.

Although I'm personally not, the closest to an almost perfect role model Islamically, all I CAN say is that, forced marriages are not Islamically justified.

All the best.

[memememe]

if everyone is happy then why not!?

if youre not happy than its a waste of life.

[memememe]

I just watched a program on youtube called, "Every marriage starts with tears".
Its about this east London girl called Shahanara Behum who has an arranged marriage in Bangladesh, it goes through all her family problems etc.
Good watch, it may make you feel disgusted of the culture of the family.

[AMZ001]

Both arrange marriages and love marrief either lasts or does not.
I guess its fate. or am I wrong?

[MR WHO]

its aload of bollocks, its like buying clothes

right size, right colour, and right qulity...
some shit like dat..............