Giving Money 2 Make a House

**MR WHO** · 05-04-2009, 11:47

right...
yestday...i was at my auntys yard washing my car.... also dreaming about next year what car to get audi a3 or gti mk5....

anyways....
my cha cha comes down he also washing his car.....(skipping the story)

anyways....later that day my cha cha says : u gotta give £5000 back home so we can make a house like the ones in indian films... o__O?

me: *silent*

on my mind im thinking 'are you serious, i cant jus coff up that money i worked so hard for'

im saving up money cuz i know ill be marraid...next year or end of next year...i wanna have money in my account....b4 i get marraid...£5000 is alot of money....fukkin hell man......why is it family members wanna invest back home..on a house that wer not gonna live in...uk is my home..not that wash out of a contry...an i dont give a shit about people back home...that how raw i am...they all sly basterd....besides all ym fam is in england....only people is grandads brothers wife an her kids (already marraid an all of them are adults)
plus they lazy fools...

all i can say is....back home shit is not of my concern....if dad grandad an cha cha..wanna help out...its their problem.

why make a wonderful fantastic massive house ur not gonna live in, its all jus to show people and get them to talk as if wer big shots...

the houses there are jus fine as it is...as long as its solid and has a roof..then its ok....fukk investing money...to a place ur not gonna lvie probally in the holidays...but everyone is marraid off...no one gonna be living their apart from 3 people...perhaps...

well later my cha cha an aunty was chattin about it , i kept silent....later on the dinner table they said like all smiling 'babz gonna give £6000' (talkin about me)

i said... ''well donno let the time come''

(fuk that man, ill only give money if i have a steady payed job)

so anyone else got a similer story....

**shelim** · 05-04-2009, 12:11

yeh i get it all teh time my answer.... "NO"... why do i wana give money to build a house im not going to live in?

That does the trick... if you dont want to give mone dont give money, they cant go and take it out of your account... so your fine...

**DJ B4VVY** · 05-04-2009, 12:34

That's what I was talking about in that thread I made about parents giving money back home. All the houses my relatives live in back there are all from my parents' money but what pisses me and my brother off is that if we ever asked my dad for money, he would question us or not give it but when it's over there, he gives them what they need plus a grand or so extra.

We're not rich but people back there think just because we're from England, we're like Billionaire's who can afford anything and they probably think that becuase my dad gives them money at a drop of a hat.

But you personally shouldn't have to give anyone money, that's your hard earned money, you should keep it for yourself becuase like you said, you will need it for your future especially now you're at the age to get married and it's not cheap these days to do anything!

**StyLeZ** · 05-04-2009, 12:37

i hope i dont get this from my mum in the future when i start earning properly...... and its true all our relatives are sooo damn filthy rich! why should we give money back home..especially to build a house WHERE NO ONE IS GOING TO LIVE IN!! lol gundam just say you'll only give half of whats your uncle is demanding..or even less..man how can people like that expect people our age to afford that much...

**MiSs** · 05-04-2009, 12:47

Its a waste of time, if you dont have the money........

Onnn the other hand. If you do have a little extra cash. (alot of extra cash)
and go back home alot.....

Then yeah its a good idea.....

(I personally wouldnt "share money" to build a house backhome, as later on it can cause loads of arguments and stuffs. and if you do. Make sure your THERE when the land/house goes under your name(s). People can be very sly.....)

Mum Dad last year brought a huge plot of land. Recently they've started buliding stuffs on it slowly. The problem is now, they both here. and the people that are organising everything for them back there are "scamming" them.

They charged us double for the gates/walls. and had dad been there, they couldnt have done that so easily.

I did warn them and told them to go back there before they started work but they didnt listen

If you do agree Guns. Make sure you go back an see how your share of the money is spent. Imo though your young. you should save it up for other stuffs, then a holiday home...lol x

Good lucks.x

**Ranj** · 05-04-2009, 13:20

Correct me if I'm wrong but your still in uni and your working? They are asking you to give up your money, when your not even out of uni for something THEY want to do. Its not a few dollars but a couple of thousand at that. I'd be very annoyed too!

Next time they bring it up just say NO. I didn't agree to giving my money. Sorry. End of discussion. Full stop.

**StyLeZ** · 05-04-2009, 13:29

exactly ranj! no way can they ask u man! your still uni with harldy any money to get yourself a house and run it!

**MR WHO** · 05-04-2009, 23:41

seee man they so quick on askinfor a huge thing like that...

but when it comes financial crisis... they will assume 'ur fault live wid it'

im tryin to save the money up for a reason...not for a fukkin house that im hardly gonna live in....
but yeh if they mention it again.....then ill say naa sorry no can do...

perents moan at us for somthing we wanna buy an will come in good hand...
but they sure are not thinkin its gonna be a waste of time for a house wer not gonna live in...

the problem is they jus wanna show off...to other people one word to another word...sorry i dont do attension seekin crap like that....not my style...if i wanna be named ill be named on my own way....i dont need shit like that...

an plus in couple years time bangladesh is gonna sink to the bottem of the ocean...

i dont get adults....
they so bacwards...
my dad wont ask me for money...for back home he knows i dont give a toss...
an plus whatever shit he says about investing...i never listen to him..in the end result its a failure....

i thought my cha cha would be clever then that...why spend the damn money back home if ur having trouble down in england....trying to save up for ends meat...
argh..////

blasted adults...

bavvy i remeber ur topic...its trueeeeeeeeeeeeee
hell yehh!!!! im jus finishin uni.... an im in dept of £11grand...
i fukkin need that money cuz once i get a well earnd payed job...i might need to pay back slowly...but with that extra cash..i know i wont be worryed...as long as i got my 'hard earnd cash beside me ill be happy'
cuz that money is 'my future'
easy money an hard money are 2 different things.

**Rab C Nesbit** · 06-04-2009, 10:36

My story's the polar opposite.
I want to invest some money into making a better holiday house for us, back home.
Some where that's away from family, away from everyone we know.
A place to actually "get away".
My father's not too happy, considering he spent a huge sum of money on building the house we've already got.
But we all hate it there, and it's not a comfortable place to stay when you're on holiday, and family are only two minutes away.

It's a long term thing, so I'm not in any rush to produce any money at the moment.
But, I've taken it as my responsibility to do this.