Valentines Gift ideas?

[Tariq2009]

Valentines is a load of Bullshit.

Today most women have been programed by there mothers/friends/family to only go after a brother whose breaking bread and is comfortable being an ATM machine for a bitch when it comes to commitment/long term/marriage. They need you to buy them the biggest diamond or Presents to show they have a love feeling, Which pretty much is a destruction of the entire idea that love was something that couldn't be bought nor even held in your hand and was suppose to be something on a greater level of emotional intensity between two people.

If you're looking for a woman to love, good luck in that bullshit. Most women are retarded and there's very few who are sincere that are more interested in a brother's characters then how much he makes and spends on you.

[Maya]

Valentines is a load of Bullshit.

Today most women have been programed by there mothers/friends/family to only go after a brother whose breaking bread and is comfortable being an ATM machine for a bitch when it comes to commitment/long term/marriage. They need you to buy them the biggest diamond or Presents to show they have a love feeling, Which pretty much is a destruction of the entire idea that love was something that couldn't be bought nor even held in your hand and was suppose to be something on a greater level of emotional intensity between two people.

If you're looking for a woman to love, good luck in that bullshit. Most women are retarded and there's very few who are sincere that are more interested in a brother's characters then how much he makes and spends on you.

I agree with the first highlighted point but disagree with the second. It's a bit harsh and to be fair, you would have to have come into contact with A LOT of women in order for that comment to hold any weight. Not all women are like that, perhaps you have just been going after the "wrong" type.

[incredible]

Tariq I'm sorry to break it to you. But yeah there are some girls that like succesful guys. and why not?

I've been going out with my girl since sunday to wednesday. I treated her sisters too. Had a fab time! I don't particularly believe in Valentines day, but it's the thought that counts.

I've got soo many flowers all lined up on my dining table and window sill lol in vases.

[queen bee]

We did nothing, and it was the best nothing we've ever done. So Tariq, don't generalise.

[Tariq2009]

If you're looking for a woman to love, good luck in that bullshit. MOST women are retarded and there's very few who are sincere that are more interested in a brother's characters then how much he makes and spends on you.

MOST being is the important word QB, I didn't say ALL, so how is that generalising ?

[Tariq2009]

Tariq I'm sorry to break it to you. But yeah there are some girls that like succesful guys. and why not?

I've been going out with my girl since sunday to wednesday. I treated her sisters too. Had a fab time! I don't particularly believe in Valentines day, but it's the thought that counts.

I've got soo many flowers all lined up on my dining table and window sill lol in vases.

How do you define 'successful'. Success in terms of financial status or career wise ? Success is very objective.

See i don't get guys like you, you spoil a bitch just to get a suck off, then other women see that and expect a brother to spend on them, and if you don't they feel you inadequate and 'oh that motherfucker ain't shit cos he don't buy shit for me'. You think that's love? LMAO. REAL love has nothing to do with the world that has bought into this idea of personal happiness being the accumulation of physically tangible goods.

[Zero]

I think Tariq never got a valentine in his whole life.

[incredible]

How do you define 'successful'. Success in terms of financial status or career wise ? Success is very objective.

See i don't get guys like you, you spoil a bitch just to get a suck off, then other women see that and expect a brother to spend on them, and if you don't they feel you inadequate and 'oh that motherfucker ain't shit cos he don't buy shit for me'. You think that's love? LMAO. REAL love has nothing to do with the world that has bought into this idea of personal happiness being the accumulation of physically tangible goods.

shurrup man Your never gonna get a girl with an attitude like that

2 ways of looking at it:

1. Some girls go for succesful guys. That could be a a guy with a top job on a nice salary to a badboy who's good at his trade or maybe a good looking guy they can use as a tophey

2. Other girls will just go for a quiet type of guy who's not likely to cheat on them.

I'll put a third one in, some girls just go for neither either cus their lesbians or like to be single or even have a different preference.

[DJ B4VVY]

I think Tariq never got a valentine in his whole life.

Neither have I

[queen bee]

MOST being is the important word QB, I didn't say ALL, so how is that generalising ?

But you don't have sufficient knowledge to say 'most girls...' How many girls have you been with? What sort of girls are they? Have you been with girls that are all the same, have they differed in any way with their expectations. Saying 'most girls' is to tar all women with the same brush as the women you've been with. So you already have a 'generalisaed' viewpoint on how women behave. You have gained a concept of 'women' through personal experience. Which makes the line 'most women....' a generalisation

[queen bee]

How do you define 'successful'. Success in terms of financial status or career wise ? Success is very objective.

See i don't get guys like you, you spoil a bitch just to get a suck off, then other women see that and expect a brother to spend on them, and if you don't they feel you inadequate and 'oh that motherfucker ain't shit cos he don't buy shit for me'. You think that's love? LMAO. REAL love has nothing to do with the world that has bought into this idea of personal happiness being the accumulation of physically tangible goods.

I agree with you here!!!!!

[Spider Pig]

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[Tariq2009]

But you don't have sufficient knowledge to say 'most girls...' How many girls have you been with? What sort of girls are they? Have you been with girls that are all the same, have they differed in any way with their expectations. Saying 'most girls' is to tar all women with the same brush as the women you've been with. So you already have a 'generalisaed' viewpoint on how women behave. You have gained a concept of 'women' through personal experience. Which makes the line 'most women....' a generalisation

You don't have had to been in a relationship with a woman to know how conniving some of them can be. There's was 1 woman who I connected with on a mental,emotional and intellectual level, but like a lot of Asian girls she shited it when it came to telling her parents, cos she didn't want 'daddies little girl' to think bad of her. So now my attitude is like f**k it and f**k everybody, I'm in a world where i pretty much dislike every person I can't really say I'd give a b***h a time of day because either A: They'll just be average mindstate wise and won't speak on anything real or B: Chances are the b***h will get tired with me 4 the fact that I can't deal with everyones bullshit. Also the fact i call certain types of women b*****s might be a borderline on Misogynistic ideals. Misanthropy is already viewed as a Inhumane way to view the world, but I rather be inhumane then be a damn hypocrite.

Love is a real thing thugh, its the Emotional part of your brain reaching a intense state of feelings towards a person. The state can result in some really amazing things and maybe even make you do things you wouldn't do for anyone else. The problem is people confuse the state of love with the state of infatuation. Which is why majority of marriages end in Divorces, because they are not truly in love, they are infatuated. Emotions and lust are confused with love. Love last and that other bulls**t is temporary. Same reason that people marriage's don't last because it's built on sand and not rock.

Do I believe in Love? Hell yah. Will I find it? Probably not

Also women want a relationship they see in the god damn movies now. Flawless, perfection no troubles and if there is any, they are fixable within 30 minutes. People no longer work on relationships, build off sacrifices, and grow closer. Moment something goes wrong, either they'll divorce and destroy our financial lives, use ours and there own bloodline for leverage, and denounce anything about you too your kids.

So to summarize, I don't give a fuck about some stupid ass b***h, some punk ass holiday that's been raped by commercialism. In the end, None of the shit will matter because humanity like always is flawed in ignorance, jealously and insecurity that will usually result in any Love being destroyed. If you can find Love, make it work and keep it until you're a dead next to them. Then you have my respect. Cause you actually figured out how Love is. Love is rare and when it's actually LOVE it'll last no matter.

[Rab C Nesbit]

Lol.
Ah, boo hoo hoo.
Girlies are bad and only want money, money, money and are never satisfied.

Oh, shut your yap.
You've been done wrong by a girl, and are taking it out on any creature with ovaries.

I, for one, passionately hate girls.
...and even I can't agree with you.

You see, it's not right/fair to generalise.

Anyhoos, back to Valentines.
What did I do to celebrate St. Valentine's life?
I tried my hardest to avoid aggression and physical violence when dealing with the siblings, I kept my mouth shut as much as I possibly could and spent most of the day in solitary confinement whilst cleaning out the bathroom, kitchen before rearranging my room.
...I ended the day by confessing my sins of disloyalty to The HunchBack.
5 steps forwards, 3 steps back.

[Evil_Genious]

You don't have had to been in a relationship with a woman to know how conniving some of them can be. There's was 1 woman who I connected with on a mental,emotional and intellectual level, but like a lot of Asian girls she shited it when it came to telling her parents, cos she didn't want 'daddies little girl' to think bad of her. So now my attitude is like f**k it and f**k everybody, I'm in a world where i pretty much dislike every person I can't really say I'd give a b***h a time of day because either A: They'll just be average mindstate wise and won't speak on anything real or B: Chances are the b***h will get tired with me 4 the fact that I can't deal with everyones bullshit. Also the fact i call certain types of women b*****s might be a borderline on Misogynistic ideals. Misanthropy is already viewed as a Inhumane way to view the world, but I rather be inhumane then be a damn hypocrite.

Love is a real thing thugh, its the Emotional part of your brain reaching a intense state of feelings towards a person. The state can result in some really amazing things and maybe even make you do things you wouldn't do for anyone else. The problem is people confuse the state of love with the state of infatuation. Which is why majority of marriages end in Divorces, because they are not truly in love, they are infatuated. Emotions and lust are confused with love. Love last and that other bulls**t is temporary. Same reason that people marriage's don't last because it's built on sand and not rock.

Do I believe in Love? Hell yah. Will I find it? Probably not

Also women want a relationship they see in the god damn movies now. Flawless, perfection no troubles and if there is any, they are fixable within 30 minutes. People no longer work on relationships, build off sacrifices, and grow closer. Moment something goes wrong, either they'll divorce and destroy our financial lives, use ours and there own bloodline for leverage, and denounce anything about you too your kids.

So to summarize, I don't give a fuck about some stupid ass b***h, some punk ass holiday that's been raped by commercialism. In the end, None of the shit will matter because humanity like always is flawed in ignorance, jealously and insecurity that will usually result in any Love being destroyed. If you can find Love, make it work and keep it until you're a dead next to them. Then you have my respect. Cause you actually figured out how Love is. Love is rare and when it's actually LOVE it'll last no matter.

You know - that's a good post..... Repped.