Whats your verdict on the whole idea of arranged marraiges , a good thing or bad thing? do you think the tradition will fade away in future....
Arranged Marraiges
Whats your verdict on the whole idea of arranged marraiges , a good thing or bad thing? do you think the tradition will fade away in future....
http://www.theasianplace.net/forum/p...-arranged.html
Kinda sums it up/
it's already fading away.
Arrange marraige and Forced marraige should never be confused. They're 2 different things.
some people choose to have an arranged marraige because either they can't pull a girl/ guy they like/ want or they're not fussed like the girl/ guy that has been chosen for them.
But it is a thing of the past now/
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In a nutshell, arranged marriages are fine. Just an introductory system, nothing wrong with that? You can still get to know, you can still accept/reject. You're less likely to become really emotionally or physically involved if your marriage has been arranged. And I think it will be around for longer, there are still people who don't meet people or find it hard to take that initial step or just shy or whatever. Love marriages are increasing but personally I don't mind being introduced to someone, I'm open for my parents to look for me. The important thing is if one has an option and a say in the matter. If they don't, then that's a forced marriage and it's uncommon now and completely different, like Increds already mentioned. How'd you feel about it Lina?
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I was horrified and appalled when my parents told me I am to have an arranged marriage.
That must mean I'm a Paki.
Arranged or Love, you just gotto do whats right for you,
everyone has a different view to what marraige is, sum up what you want, and you'll be fine
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Last edited by RockSolid; 21-04-2010 at 00:11.
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Originally Posted by SweetSuga
I agree with what SweetSuga said.
If all hope of finding the 'one' fails, then you should at all means see what your parents can find you, at the end of the day, you will alway's have the choice to say yes, or no.
Some men aren't looking for anything logical. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world burn.
Arranged marriages are a good introductory method, so long as they are just that and not confused with forced marriages. I think whether you go for a arranged or a love marriage really just depends on the individual. For those lucky enough to find love first, they then spend the first few months of marriage adjusting. For those for whom it is arranged, the love comes later, if they are compatible that is...
man that sounds like shoe shopping..
p.s you got pm
anyways...
had a some lame ass talk wid mum about shit like this............
whatever bullshit she says i counter back...
end of the day, no one gnna give a fuk if person is good...............
if the family bakground is bullbags........
cuz dem days ppl will always look at ya family bakground.....
they dnt realise it they do it them selvs...an yet they fukkin brainless...
anways.................end of the dy thy try use the good old person got a job and dargree trick to hide there bad family history...
fuk dat shit...
Some People are Sweet an Yet so Bitter...So Best Thing To Do is Sour Them...That Way There Rotten
^Yes I agree. Arrange marriage is one thing but force is another!
It's a shame that most goreh don't understand that, but then again we hear of so many cases where a girl is forced married!
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