How long would you wait

**Confuzzled** · 14-07-2010, 08:43

Originally Posted by DJ B4VVY

Tonight's the night - it's crunch time!

I hope it goes how I want and hope my mum is still awake when I get back home!

How did it go?

**DJ B4VVY** · 14-07-2010, 13:08

It went ok, my mum was pretty quiet at first asking questions with long silences, I think she was more shocked than anything! And then my dad came in and she told him and he seemed more happier and said it's good news because he's Hindu and Gujarati and that's what they wanted. They said they wanted to meet him and his family but I said not yet and my dad was like ok, you two get to know each other first and then tell us what you decide. But my mum seemed alot happier about it this morning and said she was gonna tell my brother so then he can get a chance to meet him first like over dinner or something which I wouldn't mind but not just yet and also I don't want my sister-in-law knowing!

**Spider Pig** · 14-07-2010, 14:28

then why tell them now if you weren't ready for them to meet etc. :s

**Pretzel** · 14-07-2010, 15:05

Originally Posted by Cheeky_Princess

I was with him in bluewater..
we saw you blabbering away!

hehe

WHAAT?! lol what day, what was i wearing, you sure it was me? I dont believe you!

Why didnt you come say hi?!

**Pretzel** · 14-07-2010, 15:07

Originally Posted by DJ B4VVY

It went ok, my mum was pretty quiet at first asking questions with long silences, I think she was more shocked than anything! And then my dad came in and she told him and he seemed more happier and said it's good news because he's Hindu and Gujarati and that's what they wanted. They said they wanted to meet him and his family but I said not yet and my dad was like ok, you two get to know each other first and then tell us what you decide. But my mum seemed alot happier about it this morning and said she was gonna tell my brother so then he can get a chance to meet him first like over dinner or something which I wouldn't mind but not just yet and also I don't want my sister-in-law knowing!

Omg whats this guy like?! (obv u must like him to tell ur parents lol)
How long have you dated?!

**DJ B4VVY** · 14-07-2010, 18:34

Originally Posted by Spider Pig

then why tell them now if you weren't ready for them to meet etc. :s

It's because I'm meeting him like once or twice a week and I don't want to lie about where I'm going or who I'm going with, that's what my mum was most disappointed about when I told her. I want them to know who I'm with because I don't usually go out on weekdays and Mondays and Wednesdays are the only days I get to see him. I didn't meet him today though because I want my parents to soak it in before I go out with him again.

**DJ B4VVY** · 14-07-2010, 18:42

Originally Posted by Pretzel

Omg whats this guy like?! (obv u must like him to tell ur parents lol)
How long have you dated?!

Yea I do really like him and he has the same future plans as me, we've both got what we want in life except our own family! And we both like each other alot and share alot of the same interests and he's not had any luck with girls his mum has introduced him to and well I haven't had any luck finding a guy at all! He's 29, lives in Leicester but works in Leeds, he's got his own car and his own house and got a good job in the field he did his degree in. We haven't dated for long but you just know if you want to be with someone when you find someone you can talk to for hours everyday and go out for a nice meal with them without any awkwardness etc.

**Cheeky_Princess** · 15-07-2010, 02:25

Originally Posted by Pretzel

WHAAT?! lol what day, what was i wearing, you sure it was me? I dont believe you!

Why didnt you come say hi?!

I can't pinpoint the day now..
But i'm sure it was you..
i wanted to say hi but pacman thought i'd embarrass him so couldn't

Originally Posted by DJ B4VVY

Yea I do really like him and he has the same future plans as me, we've both got what we want in life except our own family! And we both like each other alot and share alot of the same interests and he's not had any luck with girls his mum has introduced him to and well I haven't had any luck finding a guy at all! He's 29, lives in Leicester but works in Leeds, he's got his own car and his own house and got a good job in the field he did his degree in. We haven't dated for long but you just know if you want to be with someone when you find someone you can talk to for hours everyday and go out for a nice meal with them without any awkwardness etc.

Aww bav this is great news
congrats and good luck!

**Enchantress** · 19-07-2010, 14:03

Congrats Bav, hope everything goes to plan, get married and have lots of babies... quick quick! ^_^

**DJ B4VVY** · 19-07-2010, 20:07

Lol @ lots, he wants a football team!

**mindstate** · 19-07-2010, 20:35

when the time is right

**IRFAN06** · 19-07-2010, 20:39

as long as possible

**Pac Man** · 28-07-2010, 15:54

Originally Posted by Pretzel

WHAAT?! lol what day, what was i wearing, you sure it was me? I dont believe you!

Why didnt you come say hi?!

i cant even remember the day now coz i went to bluewater 3 times that week. but yeh you just kept blabbin away...oblivious to the fact that we were staring at you... well i was anyway.

and to be quite honest krispy kremes was much more of an attractive option than saying hi to you and getting the "who da fuk are you?" stare back.