Just have a three some. At least that way YOU can be satisfied and have some closure, lowal!
Just have a three some. At least that way YOU can be satisfied and have some closure, lowal!
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Thats all i gotta say... worthless, your boyfriend is stupid for even letting back in the house let alone forgive....
OMG De Ja Vu, No! it's INCEPTION!!!
Simple rule.. TS asks you.. You don't ask TS..
You know its actually surprising that she was forgiven, I must say.
I just dont understand why his brother is acting weird we've all moved on hes forgiven me why cant he just be normal
I'll tell you why. Because it 'burns'.
And when it burns, that's when he'll do stuff to spoil your plans and fun. But, the reality is, you're fulfilling the most evil act a woman can do: break blood ties via your own weaknesses. I don't want to go in and judge on you, whatever, life brings its challenges and each is different for each person.
I can't say if he's grown some feelings for you, only you can answer that question. But, think about it. You fucked him and now he listens in on your conversations with his brother, stamps his feet to let you know he knows you and him are in the same place at the same time.. Think about it.... He has some feeling toward you, how strong they are is anyone's guess. But they're strong enough arn't they?
I would say, its time for growth. At the moment, you're choosing to live as a 'homewrecker' paint it whatever colour you want. That's what it is. You'll forever live with that stigma. Until, and if you truly feel remorse, you move on. You can't feel shame for drinking piss and continue to live in a pisshouse. You have to move out to move on. Let the brothers salvage some sort of relationship with each other. You're being the selfish one here, not his brother and not your so called boyfriend.
"I'll let you break me off, but I won't let you break my heart"
tell me what's your favourite position and I will tell you why he's acting weird
Originally Posted by Spider Line
psychotherapist
@ Evil Genious:
Your absolutly right and thanks for that. I am trying to move on but my boyfriend is reluctant in letting me go 'cos' of his brother! He does not want his brother to be the reason to his unhappiness and loneliness. I haven't seen him since ramadhan.
He thinks if we break up his brother will win and be happy and he doesnt want that ...
:-(
Btw, what's the fact he's mixed race got to do with anything?
^^Thanks to the Evil_G^^
Teardrop. Trust me. In this situation, nobody is a winner and nobody will win - ever. Things like these are difficult and the decison has to come from within. Remember, the longer you stay, the more difficult it gets. If you adament that you want to stay with your boyfriend. You should move out together. Move out and away from his brother. That's the only way. If you bring a child into this world, remember should that kid ever sense tension between you and their uncle and should they ever uncover the truth - you'll have to face up to that someday.
I won't say what's right and what's wrong. But, you are at a junction in the road right now. It's your choice which path you want to walk, but remember when you choose that path. Don't cower away from your mistakes. If you stay, you have to get used to living with them - they'll accompany you 'til the absolute end.
"I'll let you break me off, but I won't let you break my heart"
He must really love you if he forgave you so quickly after doing something like that...
Your really lucky
If you really do want to move on, dont let your boyfriend stop you.
Its your choice what you decide to do. But I doubt things are going to get better for you or him.....
Btw. Are you muslim? Hows your fasting going? (you mentioned ramadan)
Swearing is an illiterate way to talk/argue
Please refrain from ebullying/putting other members down
just because of your own hidden insecurities!!!
(tehee =) )
Thanking you
simple..!! leave ya bf and get on wid ya life..! altho it sounds harsh but ya past is ya past..!! ppl make mistakes and we learn from it..!! thts life..!! i kno its a bitch but thts tht..!! its no point bein uncomfortable and hurt all ya life coz ov the sin u commitid coz theres alwaiz redemption and repentance remember tht..!! i sai allow it cos if ya gna feel like tht all ya life then it eint worth it..!! think abt it..!! evrydai u gna see the act u commitid..!! u gna feel like shit evrytime u see it..!! nw tell me is tht worth it..?? move on with ur life and leave the past wer it is..!! make yaself a better person i kno u av the strength in u 2 do tht..!! peace..!!
"From The Mind, Rhymes We Create"
- G.S
Wow, doesn't that put things into context for you?
So many people chuck the word Love about... without respecting it.
yes welcome to the real world queen bee
Last edited by playa4life55; 05-09-2010 at 15:13.
"From The Mind, Rhymes We Create"
- G.S
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