Would U Forgive?

[pinky]

i think u need 2 forgive family i cud neva never stay angry at a family member. no matter they will always be there for you. however with freinds it rele depends on what they have done x

[$xy $onz]

agree with my pinky putar

but also personal experience i forgave never forgot but yet the person repeated n i forgave again n the person repeated this time i have decided no matter what i am not gonna forgive dono whether it will go under me making the person suffer or what but i think its the right thing for me to do even though i personally dont want to

btw gundam those txt messages you send me was funny, now i see what you mean by peoples crafty ness

xXx

[Hiroshi]

As it's been repeated in this thread over and over again;

"Forgive, but never forget."

Some may think that holding onto a grudge is being strong, but true strength is learning to let go of things.

Depending on the level of the damage caused.. I'd may be give it another chance if it's someone close and they seem truly regretful about their mistake. But if it's something major, like making someone's life miserable.. I'm better off. Go about your business, I'll go about mine.

"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." - If a person's done it once, what guarantees they won't do it again? I'm the kind to put my foot down at the first sign of a person doing wrong..

Then again, why would you cause yourself a strain by being bitter? Why go down to their level? Doesn't make you any better.. How can you find pleasure in putting someone else down? I think the whole "watching someone beg and suffer cause it's fun" is just silly and immature.. it's just wasting your time on people who aren't worth it. "He who angers you, controls you" - It's not worth the time and energy spent.

[MiSs]

How can you find pleasure in putting someone else down? I think the whole "watching someone beg and suffer cause it's fun" is just silly and immature..

I totaly agree with you.
It should never be "fun" to see some one suffer, no matter how bad they are.

[$xy $onz]

I kinda disagree with the above, i wont really say its fun, its more of like putting the other person go through what they made them go through once so they know how it feels cuz eitherwise these people will repeat the same thing again and hurt you again btw talking from experience only then they will understand and learn to appreciate what you have done for them and not repeat it

xXx

[~*Anonymous*~]

I kinda disagree with the above, i wont really say its fun, its more of like putting the other person go through what they made them go through once so they know how it feels cuz eitherwise these people will repeat the same thing again and hurt you again btw talking from experience only then they will understand and learn to appreciate what you have done for them and not repeat it

xXx

I've done stupid things in my life by believing and forgiving those who kept hurting me and they still do it to this day but I can't help but to keep forgiving them because they are my family. BUT I would never want to hurt them back and put them through what I'm going through - may be stupid because they will keep doing it.

It's just time to walk away from the shit and not let it hurt anymore. Once they're out of your life they can't hurt you anymore.

[MR WHO]

hmmmmmmmmmmmm.....

[MR WHO]

I've done stupid things in my life by believing and forgiving those who kept hurting me and they still do it to this day but I can't help but to keep forgiving them because they are my family. BUT I would never want to hurt them back and put them through what I'm going through - may be stupid because they will keep doing it.

It's just time to walk away from the shit and not let it hurt anymore. Once they're out of your life they can't hurt you anymore.

i was like that once......put on a blind eye an walk away.....
apart of ya brain wanna block da shizzz out.....

but now its time to take the piss....an shit sture........family members see im bare cold now......haha some think im possessed by a demon...

even i wont miss ya if them die.....ya die in vain....tuff luck

[Iroquois Pliskin]

Dude you're screwed in the head. End of the day all you have left is family. End of the day you're going back home to your family. They provided you with a roof over your head, feed you, protect you for most of your life and you wanna screw them over by not forgiving them over whatever.

And you being possessed by demons. I LOL'd.

By the way, not forgiving someone is one thing, but i can be sure that someone, somewhere hasn't forgiven you over a minor thing. Don't be thinking you're in the clear coz we all fucked someone over without realising.

[~*Anonymous*~]

I agree with Pliskin... Life is way too short to hold grudges or shit stir and make other people's life a misery. Just live your life, if you didn't care aout them it wouldn't matter.

You say you won't care if they died but trust me you would. I lost a close family member recently but no matter what I've been through with my family it still hurts. Family is family at the end of the day.

[Iroquois Pliskin]

Fuck it. Talking to a brick wall. If you're convinced you got demons, lets do a youtube vid of you being exorcised. That shit would not only fail but might get more hits than Justin Beiber.

[shelim]

Thats 414 million views bro... R YOU DUMB BLUD?

Anyway back to the topic, forgiving someone is the most respesctable thing you can do... I Lol'd too at demons but try thinking outside the box for a minute mr average religious guy... what you putting your family through will come back and whoop your ass later on...

[Zero]

Lol some people are bound to say "oh some friends I have are more close to me than family".

Whatever, family will always be there unless you turn out to be a complete asswipe of a person, they won't deny you.

[Iroquois Pliskin]

Roll out the rolling pins we gonna exorcise this demon. Paki Style.

[Zero]

Allow it, man should be quarantined.