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DJ B4VVY · 05-03-2009, 17:14

...and for the girls?

Guys - If you like a girl, what would you do/say or what kind of signals do you give (i.e. alot of smiling, eye contact etc.) or would you wait for her to make the first move?

Girls - How can you tell if a guy likes you and how would you make the first move?

Serious answers please

Thanks

M4RN1 · 05-03-2009, 17:22

Well Im a introvert. I would always amuse her and entertain her. Smile is standard but never look direct in the eye.If she catches you. She gets a little freaked out and distants herself. Ive never made a move. If she likes me she will blurt it otherwise single is good life. hassle free. no commitments. no guilty concience.

-M0E- · 05-03-2009, 17:22

Is this about the lad who pinches your fat?

DJ B4VVY · 05-03-2009, 17:26

Originally Posted by -M0E-

Is this about the lad who pinches your fat?

Lol yea it is

Don't get me wrong, we had a great time when we went out but I need to know if he likes me or if I'm wasting my time

M4RN1 · 05-03-2009, 17:27

Nah he dont like you. his a good social guy- a hands on guy sends mixed feelings. slap him up!

DJ B4VVY · 05-03-2009, 17:29

Originally Posted by M4RN1

Nah he dont like you. his a good social guy- a hands on guy sends mixed feelings. slap him up!

Good social guy as in good friend?

M4RN1 · 05-03-2009, 17:31

Yeah. Some guys they just swoop girls of their feet, not intentionally but girls just fall for guys who are damn right confidence and 'cool'. not shy easy going, maintain a good rapport etc gift of gab. Really they just want to have good time, kill the boredom factor.

But i dont know this guy and i dont know whats in his mind.

DJ B4VVY · 05-03-2009, 17:36

Yea I kind of know what you mean, it's not like I'm totally in love with the guy so atleast I can keep him as a friend if nothing else but I still need to know and don't know how to ask him. Maybe I should have a few drinks before I ask him to build up my confidence!

Nero_Angelo · 05-03-2009, 17:36

Marni is spot on... i.e. me.. My ex used to tell me that I flirt without flirting... Just being nice and friendly is considered flirting... But I go the extra level with the whole hugging and touchy feely etc etc... But I'm also quite the stud muffin ¬.¬ SHUT UP MINA!!! SHUT YOUR FACE!!! =P
When I like a girl... I've never really made the first move in any of my relationships.. I just know I like someone, they get along with me... then it kinda just happens =S
(Have I gone off topic?)

DJ B4VVY · 05-03-2009, 17:40

Originally Posted by Nero_Angelo

Marni is spot on... i.e. me.. My ex used to tell me that I flirt without flirting... Just being nice and friendly is considered flirting... But I go the extra level with the whole hugging and touchy feely etc etc... But I'm also quite the stud muffin ¬.¬ SHUT UP MINA!!! SHUT YOUR FACE!!! =P
When I like a girl... I've never really made the first move in any of my relationships.. I just know I like someone, they get along with me... then it kinda just happens =S
(Have I gone off topic?)

So then how do you know your in a relationship if you don't know if she likes you or you don't tell her you like her?

M4RN1 · 05-03-2009, 17:40

Mina found out i was a stud muffin- she tried to get my digits through someone else. sad

zoned · 05-03-2009, 17:43

he pinched ur fat

he likes you, he wants to have ur babies, when ur pregnant he will have more fat to pinch

conclusion: he likes you...

me personally i would just chill out with her more then one time at the cinema i'll put my arm around, bring her close, unzip my pants then tell her to go down down down no really i'll stop at the arm around her bit

M4RN1 · 05-03-2009, 17:43

Originally Posted by Nero_Angelo

Marni is spot on... i.e. me.. My ex used to tell me that I flirt without flirting... Just being nice and friendly is considered flirting... But I go the extra level with the whole hugging and touchy feely etc etc... But I'm also quite the stud muffin ¬.¬ SHUT UP MINA!!! SHUT YOUR FACE!!! =P
When I like a girl... I've never really made the first move in any of my relationships.. I just know I like someone, they get along with me... then it kinda just happens =S
(Have I gone off topic?)

When i was a bachelor I couldnt picture myself with a GF. No way. Was tempted to try but stayed strong.
Girls get jealous really easy. I Know.They wont admit it never will but theres always that thing in their head..sometimes they cry and doubt the whole relationship. to find how they doubt you wait for the famous question. Do you still love me?

Nero_Angelo · 05-03-2009, 17:44

Lol... Well my ex made the first move... With a kiss... We were friends before hand... then she called and asked if it's ok to take what we have into a relationship... so we did... and it was awesome =D

Lancashire · 05-03-2009, 17:44

Guys should always make the first move.... but it's not always the case..!

05-03-2009, 17:14	#1 (permalink)
DJ B4VVY AP's Devil Location: PUDSEYYYYY Age: 25 Gender: Female Country: Posts: 15,973 My Mood: Rep Power: 587 Rep Level:	Questions for the Guys ...and for the girls? Guys - If you like a girl, what would you do/say or what kind of signals do you give (i.e. alot of smiling, eye contact etc.) or would you wait for her to make the first move? Girls - How can you tell if a guy likes you and how would you make the first move? Serious answers please Thanks DJ B4VVY http://www.youtube.com/B4VVY Please support me!: http://www.facebook.com/pages/DJ-B4VVY/22371339840

05-03-2009, 17:22	#2 (permalink)
M4RN1 Bad Hair Day? Use A Comb! Location: Kingdom Heven Age: 24 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 11,093 My Mood: I have 7 Blog Entries Rep Power: 425 Rep Level:	Well Im a introvert. I would always amuse her and entertain her. Smile is standard but never look direct in the eye.If she catches you. She gets a little freaked out and distants herself. Ive never made a move. If she likes me she will blurt it otherwise single is good life. hassle free. no commitments. no guilty concience. "Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum". [De profundis clamo ad te domine] Last edited by M4RN1; 05-03-2009 at 17:23.

05-03-2009, 17:22	#3 (permalink)
-M0E- Newbie Location: London Gender: Male Country: Posts: 153 My Mood: Rep Power: 0 Rep Level:	Is this about the lad who pinches your fat? L o v e I s P a i n

05-03-2009, 17:27	#5 (permalink)
M4RN1 Bad Hair Day? Use A Comb! Location: Kingdom Heven Age: 24 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 11,093 My Mood: I have 7 Blog Entries Rep Power: 425 Rep Level:	Nah he dont like you. his a good social guy- a hands on guy sends mixed feelings. slap him up! "Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum". [De profundis clamo ad te domine]

05-03-2009, 17:31	#7 (permalink)
M4RN1 Bad Hair Day? Use A Comb! Location: Kingdom Heven Age: 24 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 11,093 My Mood: I have 7 Blog Entries Rep Power: 425 Rep Level:	Yeah. Some guys they just swoop girls of their feet, not intentionally but girls just fall for guys who are damn right confidence and 'cool'. not shy easy going, maintain a good rapport etc gift of gab. Really they just want to have good time, kill the boredom factor. But i dont know this guy and i dont know whats in his mind. "Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum". [De profundis clamo ad te domine]

05-03-2009, 17:36	#8 (permalink)
DJ B4VVY AP's Devil Location: PUDSEYYYYY Age: 25 Gender: Female Country: Posts: 15,973 My Mood: Rep Power: 587 Rep Level:	Yea I kind of know what you mean, it's not like I'm totally in love with the guy so atleast I can keep him as a friend if nothing else but I still need to know and don't know how to ask him. Maybe I should have a few drinks before I ask him to build up my confidence! DJ B4VVY http://www.youtube.com/B4VVY Please support me!: http://www.facebook.com/pages/DJ-B4VVY/22371339840

05-03-2009, 17:36	#9 (permalink)
Nero_Angelo Advanced Member Location: London Age: 25 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 637 My Mood: Rep Power: 44 Rep Level:	Marni is spot on... i.e. me.. My ex used to tell me that I flirt without flirting... Just being nice and friendly is considered flirting... But I go the extra level with the whole hugging and touchy feely etc etc... But I'm also quite the stud muffin ¬.¬ SHUT UP MINA!!! SHUT YOUR FACE!!! =P When I like a girl... I've never really made the first move in any of my relationships.. I just know I like someone, they get along with me... then it kinda just happens =S (Have I gone off topic?) *Nero Angelo* *"He who angers you controls you"* *"We sweat in training, they bleed in combat"* *"Man with hole in pocket will feel cocky all day"*

05-03-2009, 17:40	#11 (permalink)
M4RN1 Bad Hair Day? Use A Comb! Location: Kingdom Heven Age: 24 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 11,093 My Mood: I have 7 Blog Entries Rep Power: 425 Rep Level:	Mina found out i was a stud muffin- she tried to get my digits through someone else. sad "Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum". [De profundis clamo ad te domine]

05-03-2009, 17:43	#12 (permalink)
zoned Loyal Member Location: England Age: 24 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 2,800 Rep Power: 264 Rep Level:	he pinched ur fat he likes you, he wants to have ur babies, when ur pregnant he will have more fat to pinch conclusion: he likes you... me personally i would just chill out with her more then one time at the cinema i'll put my arm around, bring her close, unzip my pants then tell her to go down down down no really i'll stop at the arm around her bit

05-03-2009, 17:44	#14 (permalink)
Nero_Angelo Advanced Member Location: London Age: 25 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 637 My Mood: Rep Power: 44 Rep Level:	Lol... Well my ex made the first move... With a kiss... We were friends before hand... then she called and asked if it's ok to take what we have into a relationship... so we did... and it was awesome =D *Nero Angelo* *"He who angers you controls you"* *"We sweat in training, they bleed in combat"* *"Man with hole in pocket will feel cocky all day"*

05-03-2009, 17:44	#15 (permalink)
Lancashire Advanced Member Location: Lancashire Age: 24 Gender: Male Country: Posts: 801 My Mood: Rep Power: 61 Rep Level:	Guys should always make the first move.... but it's not always the case..!

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