Do you ever worry your not making the right choices in life?

[Maya]

The shadow of doubt creeps up on us all at some point in life particularly given our self interests can at times conflict with the interests of our family, friends etc.

So, do you or have you ever doubted your choices?

Discuss...

[D351-GUND4M]

everything happens for a reason.....


the old saying.............but some reasons should'nt happen....theres always away to over come it....

it depends on the will power in your heart....

an yes sometimes i worry about the choices...but later sometimes or years time i look back an caculate that if that even happen will it be a different future on where im standing now?

[Rab C Nesbit]

All the time.
Decisions I make to please everyone, don't please me and I kick myself for not going for personal satisfaction.
Decisions I take for my own personal gain end up giving me a guilt trip.

I made a decision a few weeks ago, that I should have made two years ago.
Yet, I'm regretting making that decision at the same time.

I, obviously, have not sorted out my Id, Ego and Super Ego battle.

[Guji-Ji]

Yes, I worry all the time. But then I want to be the ones making these choices rather then parents forcing me into anything. For example, Dad isn't happy I've taken Psychology so it's up to me to prove that I have made the right choice. If in the future I find out that I haven't then at least I can say it was my mistake rather then blaming parents.

[xxMINAxx]

I've made some choices that have led me to dark places. I wouldn't say I regret them simply 'cause without being in that place I wouldn't hav met some of the closest people to me or realised the worth of those special people I have.

I worry about how choices my or may not affect my future; but ultimately I believe in myself and in the Almighty so whatever does happen will be for the best.

[Ranj]

I can over analyze at time, it gets the better of me in making me analyze every possible situation or decision. Once I just relax a bit, and talk to friends and family, the decision that is good for me seems clear.

[Bandar]

Maya, another 'observation' I've made suggests that you're quite a spiritual person.

Am I right?

[Maya]

Originally Posted by Bandar Maya, another 'observation' I've made suggests that you're quite a spiritual person. Am I right?

Maybe...

[mindstate]

whatever choices i have made in life...were/are my choices...

so

no i don't

[Voodookid]

never make your own mistakes

learn from the mistakes others have made!

[nafisa]

There's always moments when you contemplate about the choices you've made. Can only doubt so much.

Some decisions have delayed my goals further; due to family inteferences, etc. But I'm older now and working my damnedest to get where I want to be in life.

[Red_Chillies]

yes all the time

[Pretzel]

Im feeling abit like that at the moment, but just gonna take it in my stride and see whats happens..

coz you can't always be picky and choosy without doing something and finding out for yourself.

[Sidra240]

I have made some choices in life that for instance my parents would not be happy with at start but i know time can turn things around so im sticking by my choice and going along with it....i have made alot of choices in my life by myself....and so far everything has worked out and family etc are happy.....

the choices i have decided to make for the next couple of years coming will trouble some people but nothing that they cannot understand....so hopefully will work out for the best.....

but in life there are always choices which u make and parents or friends think they are wrong but within time they realise that actually it was good u made them.....

the course i wanted to do at uni, the career path i took, and life in general, my brother for one was no where near happy and my dad had his doubts. but 4 years on and they are exteremly happy with me so im glad i choose this path or i would have had great regrets.

[Sidra240]

Originally Posted by Pretzel Im feeling abit like that at the moment, but just gonna take it in my stride and see whats happens.. coz you can't always be picky and choosy without doing something and finding out for yourself.

I know agree with you....You will only know until you have tried it out. If it works out than its great if not than you just learn from it and move on