Silly Bitch!

[diva2620]

basically a girl that i met out and started hanging out with has turned out to be a right dick!

I was warned by my friends and friends of friends. That's shes weird and dodgy.
Stupidly i didn't think anything of it.
I dont know why alarm bells didn't start ringing when i noticed shes always out with just one guy. A girl with no females friends..hmmm...has to be a reason..

Anyway i gave her the benefit of the doubt.
We started going out alot , hanging out. Shed come over mine to get ready , borrow my clothes, sleep over .
she opened up to me about her past - rough.
made me think maybe thats why shes the way she is,no friends because of her past...

She told me she was skint and really depressed so i took her out to dinner and cinema a few times, paid for nights out.
She seemed grateful and said she would shout me back when she had money. Which was cool .I didn't mind. What are friends for?.

One night she left herself signed onto msn . It was a convo between her and steve(the guy friend shes always out with )
he was saying how he feels used ..thats shes fucked off since hanging out with me. Hes sick of paying for her to go out etc..
I told her about it and she just casually said oh hes in love with me. stalks me.

So one night she was like 'oh i got paid , lets go out'
I told her i was pretty skint but she could shout me back for the other night..

she didn't text back.

i called her a few days after she didn't pick up. Texed her..nothing .

Facebooked her and she gave me excuses like no credit blah blah...

I saw her out and she full on sucked my arse clean.

'oh i miss you!! lets meet up weds, we can go for lunch , on me! then go out'

i was like sure..

heard nothing from her.thought fuck it.

All my friends were like we told you so..

I feel totally used. I was just another mug like Steve.
She was round my house all the time.
I let her stay at mine . Treat my home as if it was hers.
Sister in law cooked for her.
I gave up so many nights at my bfs to be with her.
Spent soo much money on her.

And now shes fucked off.

I want nothing to do with her.

One problem. you may find this ridiculous...

She has one of my fav cardigans that i bought from a vintage shop.
irreplaceable.

I want it back.
Ive messaged her on facebook.
No reply.
On chat, Ignored.
Texed, no reply.
Phoned, Bitch didn't pick up.

So one night i get a text from her :

' Hey huni, im out tonight.
I'm wearing your cardi because all mine are in the wash.
Ill return it to you on monday'

she obviously only texed me saying that because she knew id be out and see her wearing it.

saw her out , again she was sucking my arse crack.
I just left it.. but my bf was like ' hey nice cardi!'
she was like ' hahah its dinara's funny your the 3rd person who's asked me that tonight!'
she was like ill give it to u blah blah..

again didn't hear from her!!!! fuck sake.

messaged her last sat saying i was coming to pick it up she said she wasn't in. Bullshit.

I know shes trying to keep it sweet with me because she knows i know everyone where we hang out.
But i think shes a fucking bitch. The only reason im being nice is so i can get my cardi back!
How can i get my cardi back?????!!

Once Ive got it back she can go to hell and everyone's going to know what a cheeky fuck she is.

Ive taken this pretty badly because i feel pretty fucking used. Ive never met anyone like her.
And i want my cardi back!!!I love it!!!

Advice please.
No Spam please,

Many thanks.

ps sorry to make this really really long winded!!

[Spider Pig]

Some ppl are pretty fucked up due to their past and just cannot change, its unfortunate but you gota just keep away from ppl who will use you.

Some have no excuse and just use ppl anyway.

I've known ppl like that in the past, a lot of ppl who you will do favours for but won't in return, I usually click on pretty early and then just stay away from them, and stay just as casaul friends i.e. hey, was up type of thing if you ever bump into them.

p.s just go round her pad, don't tell your coming and get your cardi back. You will deffo not get your money back.

[D351-GUND4M]

woaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah :O
that was a story an a bit....
damn i guess when we wanna do the right things for someone else...and we get fukked over...

i guess best thing to do is only trust yourself no one else...
family, friends....no one....jus you...

[Spider Pig]

woaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah :O
that was a story an a bit....
damn i guess when we wanna do the right things for someone else...and we get fukked over...

i guess best thing to do is only trust yourself no one else...
family, friends....no one....jus you...

[Axii]

omg diva you go fuck her up man! JUS TURN UP HER DOOR....tell her luk yeah i need my cardi..and leave..delete her number

what a dyke..

[Axii]

Omg im so mad ryt now lol!! dats really peed me off..i say you get the mate involved..OK dont do dat dats really bad..uhoh the devils comin out heheh.

[diva2620]

Originally Posted by Spider Pig Some ppl are pretty fucked up due to their past and just cannot change, its unfortunate but you gota just keep away from ppl who will use you. Some have no excuse and just use ppl anyway. I've known ppl like that in the past, a lot of ppl who you will do favours for but won't in return, I usually click on pretty early and then just stay away from them, and stay just as casaul friends i.e. hey, was up type of thing if you ever bump into them. p.s just go round her pad, don't tell your coming and get your cardi back. You will deffo not get your money back.

I feel like an idiot for not seeing it coming..Too nice for my own good eh?

Dont care about the money. But everyone will know what a stinge she is, I just want my cardigan back!

Originally Posted by Desi-GuNDaM woaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah :O that was a story an a bit.... damn i guess when we wanna do the right things for someone else...and we get fukked over... i guess best thing to do is only trust yourself no one else... family, friends....no one....jus you...

Im lucky that i do have real friends and family that i can trust. That have never and never will stab me in the back. Im not letting this one twat ruin that.

Originally Posted by Axii Omg im so mad ryt now lol!! dats really peed me off..i say you get the mate involved..OK dont do dat dats really bad..uhoh the devils comin out heheh.

No , cos hes her little door mate, He too has no friends so he will stick to her. He puts up with so much of her shit. I think he does secretly love her!

[Ranj]

Well now you know what she's like, cut your losses and run.

[DJ B4VVY]

I've had that happen to me a few times in the past which is why I find it hard to trust alot of people now. Do what Axii said and turn up on her doorstep unannounced and BLAP her in the face lol nah but if you see her out or if your friends see her out with the cardi on, just take it off her.

[Guji-Ji]

Be assertive or your never going to see that cardigan again. As people have said don't plan to meet her cos you know she's going to let you down. Turn up unannounced. Better, take someone else and get them to ring so if she does look through the hole in the door she thinks its someone else cos she might not open at all if she sees its you.

[diva2620]

Originally Posted by DJ B4VVY I've had that happen to me a few times in the past which is why I find it hard to trust alot of people now. Do what Axii said and turn up on her doorstep unannounced and BLAP her in the face lol nah but if you see her out or if your friends see her out with the cardi on, just take it off her.

Ive thought about just taking the cardi off her when shes out but i know what shes like shes going to like ' But Ive got no sleeves on underneath , to make me feel kinda bad , you know?
Id look like a total bitch too. I'm worried she will twist things. and make out i made her freeze or something..

You know what i might just make her next time out.

Originally Posted by Guji-Ji Be assertive or your never going to see that cardigan again. As people have said don't plan to meet her cos you know she's going to let you down. Turn up unannounced. Better, take someone else and get them to ring so if she does look through the hole in the door she thinks its someone else cos she might not open at all if she sees its you.

The thing is I've forgotten where she lives!
so id have to phone her for direction!

[MR-BIG]

beat the shit outta her n put her head down bog while its fulla shit then flush it do all this after u have got ur cardi back

[diva2620]

Just to make it clear. Im no tramp, im not going to pick a fight .Pretty girls dont fight! ha!

[kuzko]

i understand how you feel, sister. xxx

[MojoJojo]

Say your coming over on a tuesday - she'll say shes busy. Turn up on the monday...unsuspecting with your BF or any other male (or a couple of your girlies).

Be truthful and sincere i.e. tell her what the hell shes done to upset you - no point bitching about it - be upfront and assertive.

Frog march her in her own house to get your cardigan. Job done.

She won't react aggressively as you got your people for morale support.

don't think, JUST DO IT! RIGHT NOW!