I lost a girl to a Mangy :(

[BuzzB]

Lol I knoww, im just messing. Yano entertaining oneself and what not.

[$xy $onz]

lolz hehe i knw its da best fing 2 do

[incredible]

Originally Posted by Iroquois Pliskin As old Captain Jack Sparrow would have said, "If you were waiting for the opportune moment, that was it." Edited: Missed out Captain ..How could I?! lol

LMAOOOOOOO

Originally Posted by $xy $onz awwwwwwwwww bless u i felt 4 u u knw dat had a lil tear cumin u knw wat dey say init plenty of fishes in da sea

thanks...seriousily though I fealt sooo shit yesterday.

Originally Posted by BuzzB ^ LOL, for some reason, that right there, made my day. Credo, that's actually a shame. But if im honest, whats the girl doing flirting if she knew she was going to get married a few days afteeer. Cannae be a good sign. Argh, Sonz. You completly ruined my arrow flex by getting in between.

I know but the thing that made me quite sad was what if she wanted me to help her out or something??

Originally Posted by StyLeZ ^^ good point...but u knw how most of us talk with our hormones...she musta fancied him ineh haha o well..its not like u will care afta a day or 2

lol there was defoo chemistry between us...even before I seen at her house... whenever i've seen her, she has always been with her mum or somebody.

I don't know what i fealt so sh1t about, either the fact that I wanted her or what if she wanted to get with me or did she want me to help her out..or all of the above!

[$xy $onz]

awwwwwwwwww bless u ur so cute

i was gna say beter loved and lost den to never love at alll but its not lyk dat so beta 2 adore sum1 den to neva do at all

[DJ B4VVY]

Awwww but I agree with Plissy and Diva lol

[incredible]

well hopefully when she gets back, she can tell me all about it...I will try to make contact with her just to make sure she was okay with everything that has happened i.e in Pakistan. But as to ruining her marraige I wouldn't even think about that, unless if she needed my help.

[PaKi PwInCeSs]

Aaaaaah that was soo nice to read..

[StyLeZ]

yo nxt time u see her tlk 2 her pliskin is right u missed da opportunity...

or if dat dont wrk jus shout out OI BITCH stop staring at me unless u wanna say sumthin 2 me!!

[BuzzB]

Woah woah wait, your going to make contact with her?

Bit hasty naw? Why meddle with shit that isn't yours to meddle with.
Even say she wasn't too happy about getting married, what will you (ultimatly a stranger) achieve by asking her about it?

And to be honest, from experiance (i.e myself) some people just smile. Like when im out and about, I tend to smile at people just ta be nice yano. Doesn't necessarily mean anything. & I've noticed some people think way too much over stuff like that. And think its a gateway to talk to you - which it really isn't. If that makes sense?

You don't wanna bum the girl out like.

Anyway, upto you. Just adding my 2p coin.

[StyLeZ]

^^ everything made sense up untill the 2p coin bit is that how u ppl speak lol

u have a point..but ill never knw how a womans mind works......its true once they smile we all think its a lil door opening dnt deny it...but wasnt she waving and what not...

[jellytots.]

Haha, there's plenty more fishies in the sea.

Get on it.

[kuzko]

Originally Posted by incredible lol....I'm feeling better today. I've decided when she comes back from pakistan I can be her 'bit on the side' HAHAH

. tut tut

[incredible]

Originally Posted by BuzzB Woah woah wait, your going to make contact with her? Bit hasty naw? Why meddle with shit that isn't yours to meddle with. Even say she wasn't too happy about getting married, what will you (ultimatly a stranger) achieve by asking her about it? And to be honest, from experiance (i.e myself) some people just smile. Like when im out and about, I tend to smile at people just ta be nice yano. Doesn't necessarily mean anything. & I've noticed some people think way too much over stuff like that. And think its a gateway to talk to you - which it really isn't. If that makes sense? You don't wanna bum the girl out like. Anyway, upto you. Just adding my 2p coin.

I think I know the difference between when a girl is smiling just to be nice and smiling to show an intesrest. I myself get plenty of girls smiling at me n i know the difference lol...If you read it properly you would have seen she waved at me from one of the bedroom from her house, and then she called me whe i was with some lads. I don't know if you do that to every1 just casually when you're not intrested in them lol.

As to helping her out. She would have known she was getting married, she still tried attracting my attention. If somebody needs my help I would give them it. It doesn't matter if I know them or not. If you saw a person getting beat up in the street, would you not try to help them? but why should you, their strangers to you. That's just an example. now IMO if there is a forced marraige taking place, I think that's far worse than a guy just getting a few bruises in a street. And no I don't know for sure if that is the case. This is not me having a go at you, i know where you are coming from. But i have my own opinion on this sort of stuff. And I dont EVEN know for sure yet if i would even contact her, it was just a thought. If she seems happy I'd leave it at that

[Rab C Nesbit]

So, the only conversation you had were through hand gestures?
You haven't lost much, then, have you?

Yes, it was an opportunity, but you were too much of a pansy to go up to her and start chatting.
If she's hanging around outside watching you play, chances are she isn't a locked up girl who must always stay chained to the sink. You could've probably got away with a few brief conversations.

Your story reminds me of the night I met an amazing dancer.
Everything was going amazing, until I needed the piss.
I came back out, and I was taken over by stupid shyness, and I couldn't even look at him.
I walked off in the end.
I didn't even get his name!

Oh, well.

Wow.
I just read all the replies.

We're speculating, aren't we?

So, a girl goes off to Pakistan to get married.
That doesn't mean it's forced.
She might've wanted to go herself, 'cause you get better clothes/jewellery/venues etc...
She might've been betrothed.
Hell, if we're going to spend our time talking about her supposed marriage, we might as well try and make up the rest of her life.
Maybe she dropped out of college?
She might have had asthma...

So many things to make up to create a person's character in our heads.

[incredible]

I know what you're saying again. But like I said i'm not sure what I was gutted by. I mean she showed interest in me and then a few days laters she's shipped of to Pakistan. I had mixed emotions tbh, feeling sorry for her.

But as to not asking her out, with hindsight I would have asked her out now, I would gone to her when she was calling me. I wasn't shy at all, never have been, never will be. I didn't expect her to be there 1 min and the next min gone.