self harm....

**ruby angel** · 02-12-2005, 23:35

wat r ur viewz on this???

**---Miss_Khan---** · 02-12-2005, 23:41

don't have any remorse for people who do it...if you hate yourself so much why self-harm and cause a scene? might aswell kill yourself and end it.

**bananasuit** · 03-12-2005, 01:55

jesus!

well do u mean like cuttin ur self?

**JeLLyBaBieZ** · 03-12-2005, 19:12

i dunno i fink those people just need sumone to talk to r even sumink else to channel there feelings thru

**ruby angel** · 03-12-2005, 19:48

Originally Posted by bananasuit

jesus!

well do u mean like cuttin ur self?

ye........

**bananasuit** · 04-12-2005, 00:26

hmm i could never directly just cut my own skin on purpose ... but i get the ppl that do it have their reason, and maybe need professional help. if i found out one of my friends was doing it i would ask them why... and if they needed to talk... the best thing for me to do then is just respect my friend. i wouldnt tell anyone as it may cause them more trouble. id just be there for them.

**ruby angel** · 04-12-2005, 01:12

betta thn wat miss khan sed...hu dnt seem 2 hav any feelingz wat so eva...

miss khan..u seriously think suicide is betta??
wat wud u do if ur m8 was doin tht 2 herself, wud u go up 2 her an go 'wats the point, its betta 2 go kill urself' ??..

**---Miss_Khan---** · 05-12-2005, 18:49

if my mate was doing that i';d take the piss outta her so much, that she actually would go and kill herself lol.

**bananasuit** · 05-12-2005, 20:30

that would make you not her mate !

**pinky** · 05-12-2005, 21:51

miss karn kuriye show some upset yer. i no dey only do it 4 attention bt den dey need it coz dey aint happy wiv themselves n i no it aint da answa bt in somes cases some ppl take advantage n then they only relises it wen da person der takin advantage of is doin sumthin 2 themselvs coz it which will make them relise its nt them doin cuttin themselves its also a realese of der anger upset instead of cryin or gettin rele angry dey cut themselves. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

**ruby angel** · 05-12-2005, 23:39

wat if their not doin it 4 atention, i mean sum ppl do it and no1 eva knwz, thts gtta b more thn an attention seeker

**---Miss_Khan---** · 06-12-2005, 00:14

Originally Posted by Cutie

miss karn kuriye show some upset yer. i no dey only do it 4 attention bt den dey need it coz dey aint happy wiv themselves n i no it aint da answa bt in somes cases some ppl take advantage n then they only relises it wen da person der takin advantage of is doin sumthin 2 themselvs coz it which will make them relise its nt them doin cuttin themselves its also a realese of der anger upset instead of cryin or gettin rele angry dey cut themselves. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

say whhhaaaaaaat? lol in english plz hunny bun.

Anyhoo, if peepz wanna cut themself then thts their business, it's their body and their life, leave 'em to it.

**sunhun** · 06-12-2005, 08:24

ye i kno a friend who done it, carved his girls name in his arm after she cheated on him n left him. at tha time he had nobody to turn to for emotional support cuz she was all he had, so im assumin he lost self-respect and took it out on himself. 5 yrs later he still reads her name on his arm when he wakes up daily, and he hates it with a passion, cuz it reminds him of that pain. although he's overcome it, he can't let it go. its real, happens to lotta ppl. i think it's made a permanent mark on him too. all u can do is like bananasuit, b a shoulder for 'em..
my opinion (Y)

**Safi** · 06-12-2005, 13:24

bles those ppl, cn onli imagine hw they feel cuz wen it cums 2 pain, i ave a low threshold, i jst about stand the pain wen i cut meself by mistake so jst imagine wantin 2 do dat on purpose, must b a real form of desperation, these ppl need alitl understandin n 2 find sum peace, thru woteva it mayb, cuz b 2 jst talk or it may b a resolution....im jst thankful that ive neva bn in dat position, n wid friends n family ive managed 2 stay away frm dat sorta thing