What is this WORLD comming to?

[Guji_Romeo]

Hi,

i havent made a thread for a long time based on Life, for the reason that i keep mentioning people from the net and personal lives and affects the asian place, but i have a serious problem.

i have noticed alot of my frends are being raped, and this has been very recent and old times, i have about 10 frends that have been raped at work and socially with frineds or on holidays,

i wanna know what has this world come to? i mean it, i cry everytime i see a rape in the newspaper, its not somehting i wanna see at all, as you see everyday people dying in third world countries, this isnt funny, nor is it a good thing to live through,

but the help i want is that how do u deal with a person that has been going through this ordeal, i know its hard to tlak about to others who have become victimes of this tragic (fucked up situation) situation, but as far as i know i dont know how to deal with these sort of situations,

i always gather all my feelings, and try to find the priks and kill them if its locally done, if that makes sence, i dont know anymore, what has this world come to.....most of the rapes are young kids aged 16-18 i mean 16!!!! co mon whats going on! i mean it,

are there any centres wich prevent these things, cuz its fucked up my life, i try to help other people that need help in any situation but this is becomming a growing issue!

does anyone have any issues relating to this? or any help they cud add to this, or anything that cud help me and other how to get through this ordeal! i understand no one wants to go through this, but what can they do to prevent these things from happening? what can they do if it does happen how can they get out of it,

im sorry if this touches any sencitive partsof ur lives, but it has touched my life in a very dramatic way, i dont know what to do, i want to help those that have have been through this, but i dont know how to go on about doing it, i have been told just leave them alone, but id that the way to do things?

i have read in articles that females, become afraid of the opposite sex because of this issue, they fear away of men, .....

im truely sorry if this is not a good issue to talk about, but it might help others, so if you have any points of views plz write them in, it would much appreciated!

thank you for you time.

[Kezza]

of course women wud fear away from men.......i have great difficulty trustin men coz of sum of my past.....n wid rape or any sexual advances that are not welcome then it depends on the person as to what u can do to help, some just wonna forget it eva happened n neva talk bout it and others just wonna talk bout it to get help.

[Guji_Romeo]

thats the thing, how does one help someone, especially when it comes to fear of being preggy, because one doesnt understand the risks?

[Kezza]

wot :S? didnt understand that?

[Guji_Romeo]

ok basically, if a person got raped, right, how do u help that person in the question that would she get pregnant, how do u say to that person there is a risk for that sort of thing, because iv known many people, brush off their shoulders and ignore the risks, then relise 3 months down the line with a unwanted baby in the belly's, im not lying,

[Kezza]

i know....she has to be checked out obviously.....as a risk wid all sex widout protection, rape is not excluded!

[bananasuit]

i think that this is such a sensative issue.. where advice cant be shared over the internet... every person and every situation is different.. surelly if its messing your life up.. you should go to the doctor and get some councilling sorted out.

[Guji_Romeo]

no i mean that person doesnt want to be checked out, she has fear of parents and such! and also, things like when a person gets raped they dont complain to the police they let them go free, iv noticed that alot, females in particular they dnt seem to investigate further to have their rapist in jail or what ever, to be honest, i dnt like that, if someone gets raped they sould be able to get that fucker behind bars,

[lineyman]

I agree with Bananasuit, furthermore Guji your saying everyone YOU know seems to get raped how often does that happen come on be abit realistic, so your saying 10 people you know have been raped, that dont even happen in the movies

[Guji_Romeo]

i think that this is such a sensative issue.. where advice cant be shared over the internet... every person and every situation is different.. surelly if its messing your life up.. you should go to the doctor and get some councilling sorted out.

oh man im not that bad dont worry, im just concerned for those who have been through this, and just want to identify that this issue is real and should be talked about, not hidden, because it could happen to you,

and i want to know how to minimise things like this what can i person do, to minimise these sort of tings, im not doing this for me, i want this to be for everyone!

but thanx for the consideration.

[Guji_Romeo]

i dont mean 10 at once liney i ment, i known 10 people in my life that have been raped

[MizzyBone]

man u know 10 ppl raped in ur life...that is a bit worrying!

[bananasuit]

maybe women dont go to the police becuase they have to face reliving the ordeal in the court room.... or even the back lash of the rapist family and friends... some ppl prefer to let whats done be put to rest.. and surely on judgement day.. they will serve their punishment.. ??

[Guji_Romeo]

this isint a joke im trying to put forward, im trying to be as serious as i can, its an ordeal no one wants to go through even for the parents or frends and family, so how cud we stop this, or any views from anyone, anything really,

[bananasuit]

who is laughing??? i dont think this is a joke either... and there is no way to stop it